多栽花少栽刺 duō zāi huā shǎo zāi cì
          
              duō zāi huā shǎo zāi cì 
              
              phrase 
              talk nicely and avoid disputes; give compliments and not remarks 
              Domain: Modern Chinese 现代汉语
              
              
              
              
                Notes: (CC-CEDICT '多栽花少栽刺')